Yes I misspoke , not reading the fully message, I apologize. Perhaps working with a professional therapist would help rather than reaching out to lay people?
Maybe a visit to the local church or temple of your choosing, and as suggested, look at the dozens of volunteer groups that suit your skills...
Seriously to be I am retired, single, and lonely. here is a rare breed.
There was a single's group meeting at the LCS. I suggest you stop in there and check with the office to see if still active and who the contact persons are.
Good luck!